Luchuo Engelbert Bain, Head of International Programs at African Population and Health Research Center, shared a post on LinkedIn:
“People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
– Maya Angelou.
Throughout my life, I have encountered many brilliant and accomplished individuals, each with extraordinary intelligence and influence.
However, when I reflect on these encounters, a striking realization emerges: the people I remember most are not necessarily the smartest or most powerful.
Instead, they are those who demonstrated genuine kindness-my primary and secondary school teachers, friends I went hunting with, colleagues who supported me unexpectedly, and friends who brought laughter during tough times. That simple plate of food offered when I was struggling left a lasting impression.
Kindness leaves a deeper imprint than intellect, status, or success. Long after titles fade and achievements blur, what remains vivid is how someone treated others-whether they listened, showed respect, or chose humanity over power.
This has led me to a simple truth: what matters most in the end is living a life of kindness. Every other human attribute-intelligence, talent, recognition, or influence-pales in comparison.
Kindness is the quiet force that gives meaning to everything else. While it may be easier said than done, it is a hard but noble pursuit.
May I (we) continue to realize that the essence of being here on earth is to be there for my neighbor. To be kind. It’s the hard but noble course I choose to pursue.”
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